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The Paradox of Wealth

"I’ve been thinking about this since last night, I, too, have facilitated my granddaughter’s doing some special, expensive things. But I wonder if money or even the free time it makes possible, is really key here. Grandparents can take the kids to public parks, help catch fireflies in the backyard, or help them make a cake. One year after flying my granddaughter to NYC to see Annie on Broadway, we spent some time at my kitchen table playing with her plastic ponies. I sort of think the latter might have been more enjoyable for her."
- Marilyn Lavin
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Will Your Death Double Your Spouse’s Tax Bill?

"We actually started the conversions because our kids are likely to be in their prime earnings years when they inherit. But since we’ve started the conversions the money we put into the IRAs has tripled in value — and I doubt we are the most efficient investors. So right now about half of what we would have had in IRAs is in Roths earning excellent tax free returns, while the IRAs continue to grow, but the continuing conversions and liberal use of QCDs are not pushing our RMDs into the stratosphere."
- Marilyn Lavin
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IRMAA & late filing of tax returns

"Besides jail/fines, be aware, ​unlike private creditors (like credit card companies or medical providers) who must sue you and win a court judgment before they can touch your paycheck or bank account, the IRS does not need a court order to seize your property, freeze your bank accounts, or garnish your income."
- Steve
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Every Writer Has a Beginning: Organ Transplant Fails

"Thank you William. It means a great deal to hear that. Writing these stories has helped me discover even more about Jonathan, and it’s been wonderful to share those discoveries with the people who appreciated his wisdom and kindness. I’m grateful you’re one of them."
- Andrew Clements
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About that inflation in retirement

"isn’t the fact that the vast majority of women didn’t work outside the home in 1935 and therefore needed the protection of spousal benefits a demographic fact that now needs to be revisited?"
- Marilyn Lavin
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Buying a car in retirement

"Although I hope there will be several equally capable self-driving car options when I decide to replace my 10 year old Lexus, the anticipated freedom it will give me to once again drive at night is exciting to think about! Happy to hear that your experience with Tesla has been positive. I chafe at the restriction I’ve felt for the last 7 years. Nothing seems to help my night vision and I can easily become disoriented. It’s a scary look into how it must feel to experience dementia."
- jan Ohara
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Retirement, One Year On

"Sorry, Laura, I just saw this! I love what you said about the benefits of supporting a spouse’s creative endeavors! It’s definitely on the list of things I want to think about and try out!"
- DrLefty
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The Making of Jonathan Clements

WHEN READERS THINK of my younger brother Jonathan Clements, they often picture the longtime Wall Street Journal columnist or the founder of HumbleDollar. They remember the clear financial advice, the thoughtful essays and the quiet wisdom that helped millions make better decisions with their money. But every writer has a beginning. As I've been researching Jonathan's life over the past several weeks, I've found myself drawn less to the career everyone knows and more to the people who helped shape it. Before the books, the columns and the countless readers, there was a curious teenager discovering that he loved to write. Jonathan's journey began long before Wall Street, long before Forbes and long before HumbleDollar. It began with a school magazine at Bryanston School in Dorset, England. As a teenager, Jonathan joined the staff of Saga, the school magazine. There he wrote an article criticizing Bryanston's decision to spend money on a new pipe organ while other parts of the school needed attention. Years later, Jonathan looked back on that article with characteristic humor, saying it earned him "the enmity of a host of people." But he also said something far more revealing. That article, he believed, "was my entrée to becoming a journalist." More importantly, Jonathan had discovered not just that he enjoyed writing, but that he enjoyed asking difficult questions. Reading those early Saga articles today, what strikes me isn't simply Jonathan's talent. It's how familiar his voice already sounds. Even as a teenager, he questioned accepted wisdom with humor rather than hostility, weighed competing arguments fairly and cared deeply about priorities. Years later, readers would come to know him for helping them decide what mattered most in their financial lives. Looking back, those instincts were already there. Journalism also ran in the family. Our father began his career as a journalist before becoming an economist, and Jonathan often said his example inspired him to pursue financial journalism. After leaving Bryanston, Jonathan had almost a year before beginning his studies at Cambridge, our father's alma mater. During that time, a family friend, Mrs. Dolezal, helped him secure a reporting job at the Potomac Almanac, a small community newspaper in suburban Washington. For the next eight months, Jonathan did what young reporters often do. One day he covered education. The next, sports. Then police, then business. It wasn't glamorous work, but it taught him the fundamentals of reporting. Years later, Jonathan would describe those eight months as "the most fun and the most educational experience I had in journalism." It wasn't a large newspaper, but it gave a young reporter the opportunity to learn every aspect of the profession. Even more importantly, it introduced him to the paper's editor, Leslie Leven. Decades later, after writing for Forbes, The Wall Street Journal and founding HumbleDollar, Jonathan was asked about the people who had influenced his career. His answer surprised me. Of everyone he had worked with, he singled out Leslie, describing her as "probably the most important mentor I had." Those words say as much about Jonathan as they do about Leslie. No matter how successful he became, Jonathan never forgot the people who had believed in him before anyone else did. Cambridge came next, but by then journalism was no longer simply an interest. Jonathan later admitted that during one term he attended only four lectures because he was so immersed in editing the student newspaper, Varsity. Somewhere along the way, writing had stopped being a hobby and had become the work he wanted to spend his life doing. After Cambridge, Jonathan joined Euromoney in London, his first full-time journalism position. It was another stepping stone that eventually led him to New York and Forbes, where he discovered the world of personal finance writing. The years that followed are well known. After Forbes came nearly two decades at The Wall Street Journal, where Jonathan became one of the country's most respected personal finance columnists. He later spent six years at Citigroup as Director of Financial Education, helping investors better understand their financial lives. But the entrepreneurial spirit never left him. In 2016, he founded HumbleDollar, creating not simply another financial website, but a community built on thoughtful conversation, generosity and the belief that money is ultimately a means to a richer life, not an end in itself. Millions of readers came to trust his judgment and his remarkable ability to explain complicated ideas with clarity, humanity and compassion. Growing up, I don't think any of us could have imagined where Jonathan's curiosity and love of writing would eventually lead. He was simply my younger brother; curious, thoughtful and always eager to learn. Looking back now, the path seems almost inevitable. At the time, it was anything but. But as I've pieced together Jonathan's early years, I've come away with a different appreciation of his career. I always knew where Jonathan finished. Only recently have I begun to appreciate where, and with whom, it all began. Long before Jonathan became a mentor to countless writers and readers, someone had mentored him. A family friend opened a door. An editor patiently taught him his craft. A small community newspaper gave him a chance. We often celebrate the finished product. The successful journalist, the respected author, the trusted voice. Yet behind almost every accomplished life are people whose names are seldom remembered, people who quietly open doors, encourage talent and believe in someone long before the rest of the world notices. Jonathan never forgot them. Perhaps that's why, years later, so many aspiring writers would tell similar stories about him. He answered emails, encouraged new voices, edited with kindness and opened doors for others just as doors had once been opened for him. In the end, Jonathan's story isn't simply about becoming one of the world's most respected financial journalists. It's also about the people who quietly shaped that journey. Mrs. Dolezal opened the first door and Leslie Leven helped Jonathan find his footing as a young reporter. Those early opportunities gave him the confidence to pursue the career that followed. Every accomplished life begins somewhere. Jonathan's began with people who saw potential in a young man long before the rest of the world did.   After spending more than two decades building a successful landscaping business with his twin brother Nicholas, Andrew Clements retired in 2015 with a new appreciation for what matters most. Born in England, his essays draw on a life that has included growing up in England and Bangladesh, entrepreneurship, caregiving, family loss and travel. A regular HumbleDollar contributor, he enjoys tellingstories that remind readers life’s richest lessons often have little to do with money. Andrew is the older brother of HumbleDollar founder Jonathan Clements, whose life and legacy have inspired some of his most personal writing. He lives in Florida with his husband, Joey.
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A Letter 40 Years Later: What Mrs. Dolezal Remembered

"Darelyn, thank you so much. Your words truly touched me. I miss Jonathan every day, and I know many others do as well. If this story reminded readers that the greatest impact we can have is often through simple acts of kindness and by simply being present for one another, then it accomplished exactly what I hoped. Mrs. Dolezdal's letter reminded me of that lesson in a way I'll never forget. Thank you for such a thoughtful and generous comment."
- Andrew Clements
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What Remains: Money and Me

"Thank you Brian for taking the time to write such a thoughtful review. I smiled when you said it felt like Jonathan was personally guiding you through life, that's exactly how so many of us experienced him, whether we knew him personally or only through his writing. Like you, I found the final chapters especially powerful. Knowing what lay ahead, he still chose to write with clarity, honesty and hope rather than fear. That's a remarkable legacy to leave. I'm especially grateful that you're recommending Money and Me to your friends and adult children. If Jonathan could still speak to new readers today, I think that's exactly what he would hope for. Thank you again for keeping his voice alive."
- Andrew Clements
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Frittering away Frugality 

"totally agree, Mr. Quinn. I like to joke with family and friends that "Costco should be call half-paycheck.""
- SCao
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The Paradox of Wealth

"I’ve been thinking about this since last night, I, too, have facilitated my granddaughter’s doing some special, expensive things. But I wonder if money or even the free time it makes possible, is really key here. Grandparents can take the kids to public parks, help catch fireflies in the backyard, or help them make a cake. One year after flying my granddaughter to NYC to see Annie on Broadway, we spent some time at my kitchen table playing with her plastic ponies. I sort of think the latter might have been more enjoyable for her."
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

Will Your Death Double Your Spouse’s Tax Bill?

"We actually started the conversions because our kids are likely to be in their prime earnings years when they inherit. But since we’ve started the conversions the money we put into the IRAs has tripled in value — and I doubt we are the most efficient investors. So right now about half of what we would have had in IRAs is in Roths earning excellent tax free returns, while the IRAs continue to grow, but the continuing conversions and liberal use of QCDs are not pushing our RMDs into the stratosphere."
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

IRMAA & late filing of tax returns

"Besides jail/fines, be aware, ​unlike private creditors (like credit card companies or medical providers) who must sue you and win a court judgment before they can touch your paycheck or bank account, the IRS does not need a court order to seize your property, freeze your bank accounts, or garnish your income."
- Steve
Read more »

Every Writer Has a Beginning: Organ Transplant Fails

"Thank you William. It means a great deal to hear that. Writing these stories has helped me discover even more about Jonathan, and it’s been wonderful to share those discoveries with the people who appreciated his wisdom and kindness. I’m grateful you’re one of them."
- Andrew Clements
Read more »

About that inflation in retirement

"isn’t the fact that the vast majority of women didn’t work outside the home in 1935 and therefore needed the protection of spousal benefits a demographic fact that now needs to be revisited?"
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

Buying a car in retirement

"Although I hope there will be several equally capable self-driving car options when I decide to replace my 10 year old Lexus, the anticipated freedom it will give me to once again drive at night is exciting to think about! Happy to hear that your experience with Tesla has been positive. I chafe at the restriction I’ve felt for the last 7 years. Nothing seems to help my night vision and I can easily become disoriented. It’s a scary look into how it must feel to experience dementia."
- jan Ohara
Read more »

Retirement, One Year On

"Sorry, Laura, I just saw this! I love what you said about the benefits of supporting a spouse’s creative endeavors! It’s definitely on the list of things I want to think about and try out!"
- DrLefty
Read more »

The Making of Jonathan Clements

WHEN READERS THINK of my younger brother Jonathan Clements, they often picture the longtime Wall Street Journal columnist or the founder of HumbleDollar. They remember the clear financial advice, the thoughtful essays and the quiet wisdom that helped millions make better decisions with their money. But every writer has a beginning. As I've been researching Jonathan's life over the past several weeks, I've found myself drawn less to the career everyone knows and more to the people who helped shape it. Before the books, the columns and the countless readers, there was a curious teenager discovering that he loved to write. Jonathan's journey began long before Wall Street, long before Forbes and long before HumbleDollar. It began with a school magazine at Bryanston School in Dorset, England. As a teenager, Jonathan joined the staff of Saga, the school magazine. There he wrote an article criticizing Bryanston's decision to spend money on a new pipe organ while other parts of the school needed attention. Years later, Jonathan looked back on that article with characteristic humor, saying it earned him "the enmity of a host of people." But he also said something far more revealing. That article, he believed, "was my entrée to becoming a journalist." More importantly, Jonathan had discovered not just that he enjoyed writing, but that he enjoyed asking difficult questions. Reading those early Saga articles today, what strikes me isn't simply Jonathan's talent. It's how familiar his voice already sounds. Even as a teenager, he questioned accepted wisdom with humor rather than hostility, weighed competing arguments fairly and cared deeply about priorities. Years later, readers would come to know him for helping them decide what mattered most in their financial lives. Looking back, those instincts were already there. Journalism also ran in the family. Our father began his career as a journalist before becoming an economist, and Jonathan often said his example inspired him to pursue financial journalism. After leaving Bryanston, Jonathan had almost a year before beginning his studies at Cambridge, our father's alma mater. During that time, a family friend, Mrs. Dolezal, helped him secure a reporting job at the Potomac Almanac, a small community newspaper in suburban Washington. For the next eight months, Jonathan did what young reporters often do. One day he covered education. The next, sports. Then police, then business. It wasn't glamorous work, but it taught him the fundamentals of reporting. Years later, Jonathan would describe those eight months as "the most fun and the most educational experience I had in journalism." It wasn't a large newspaper, but it gave a young reporter the opportunity to learn every aspect of the profession. Even more importantly, it introduced him to the paper's editor, Leslie Leven. Decades later, after writing for Forbes, The Wall Street Journal and founding HumbleDollar, Jonathan was asked about the people who had influenced his career. His answer surprised me. Of everyone he had worked with, he singled out Leslie, describing her as "probably the most important mentor I had." Those words say as much about Jonathan as they do about Leslie. No matter how successful he became, Jonathan never forgot the people who had believed in him before anyone else did. Cambridge came next, but by then journalism was no longer simply an interest. Jonathan later admitted that during one term he attended only four lectures because he was so immersed in editing the student newspaper, Varsity. Somewhere along the way, writing had stopped being a hobby and had become the work he wanted to spend his life doing. After Cambridge, Jonathan joined Euromoney in London, his first full-time journalism position. It was another stepping stone that eventually led him to New York and Forbes, where he discovered the world of personal finance writing. The years that followed are well known. After Forbes came nearly two decades at The Wall Street Journal, where Jonathan became one of the country's most respected personal finance columnists. He later spent six years at Citigroup as Director of Financial Education, helping investors better understand their financial lives. But the entrepreneurial spirit never left him. In 2016, he founded HumbleDollar, creating not simply another financial website, but a community built on thoughtful conversation, generosity and the belief that money is ultimately a means to a richer life, not an end in itself. Millions of readers came to trust his judgment and his remarkable ability to explain complicated ideas with clarity, humanity and compassion. Growing up, I don't think any of us could have imagined where Jonathan's curiosity and love of writing would eventually lead. He was simply my younger brother; curious, thoughtful and always eager to learn. Looking back now, the path seems almost inevitable. At the time, it was anything but. But as I've pieced together Jonathan's early years, I've come away with a different appreciation of his career. I always knew where Jonathan finished. Only recently have I begun to appreciate where, and with whom, it all began. Long before Jonathan became a mentor to countless writers and readers, someone had mentored him. A family friend opened a door. An editor patiently taught him his craft. A small community newspaper gave him a chance. We often celebrate the finished product. The successful journalist, the respected author, the trusted voice. Yet behind almost every accomplished life are people whose names are seldom remembered, people who quietly open doors, encourage talent and believe in someone long before the rest of the world notices. Jonathan never forgot them. Perhaps that's why, years later, so many aspiring writers would tell similar stories about him. He answered emails, encouraged new voices, edited with kindness and opened doors for others just as doors had once been opened for him. In the end, Jonathan's story isn't simply about becoming one of the world's most respected financial journalists. It's also about the people who quietly shaped that journey. Mrs. Dolezal opened the first door and Leslie Leven helped Jonathan find his footing as a young reporter. Those early opportunities gave him the confidence to pursue the career that followed. Every accomplished life begins somewhere. Jonathan's began with people who saw potential in a young man long before the rest of the world did.   After spending more than two decades building a successful landscaping business with his twin brother Nicholas, Andrew Clements retired in 2015 with a new appreciation for what matters most. Born in England, his essays draw on a life that has included growing up in England and Bangladesh, entrepreneurship, caregiving, family loss and travel. A regular HumbleDollar contributor, he enjoys tellingstories that remind readers life’s richest lessons often have little to do with money. Andrew is the older brother of HumbleDollar founder Jonathan Clements, whose life and legacy have inspired some of his most personal writing. He lives in Florida with his husband, Joey.
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Manifesto

NO. 48: A HOME is a lousy source of capital gains and a great source of imputed rent. The upshot: We should buy a house we can comfortably afford and that’s big enough for our family—but no bigger.

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ASSET LOCATION. After deciding which investments to buy, we should consider our asset location. What’s that? It involves divvying up investments between taxable and retirement accounts. If investments generate large annual tax bills—think active stock funds and real estate investment trusts—we’ll likely want to hold them in a retirement account.

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VENTURE ABROAD. Many U.S. investors shy away from foreign shares, leery of the currency swings and the weaker legal protections. But adding overseas stocks can lower the risk of a U.S. stock portfolio, because foreign shares sometimes post gains when U.S. shares are suffering. HumbleDollar’s advice: Allocate a third to half of your stock portfolio to foreign shares.

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NO. 22: WE IMAGINE hard work is the key to success, as it was in school and during our career. But if our investment strategy involves hunting for winners and trading frenetically, we’re likely to hurt our results, thanks to the added cost and risk. Instead, the best returns typically accrue to the patient investor who does the least to impede compounding.

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Manifesto

NO. 48: A HOME is a lousy source of capital gains and a great source of imputed rent. The upshot: We should buy a house we can comfortably afford and that’s big enough for our family—but no bigger.

Spotlight: Health

Three Points to Avoid Injuries

Three Points
It’s a simple lesson I learned when I piloted an 18 wheeler in order to make ends meet while getting my business up and running. If you ever stood next to semi-trailer truck you would have noticed that the last step into or out of the tractor is a doozy. I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that HD’s resident physical therapist Ed Marsh treated a few injuries that occurred when a driver fell getting out of his truck.

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Quinn Explores the Question: Are Doctors Overpaid?

Are doctors overpaid?
That’s a tricky question for several reasons. Getting good data is hard and mostly based on surveys, there are variations across the country and among specialists plus few doctors work a 40 hour week. 
If you are a patient and your doctor provides life saving care, I suspect what they earn doesn’t matter, it wouldn’t to me. In any case, chances are you aren’t paying the bill yourself. 
After looking at the data from several sources,

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Keep Moving

Physical strength is essential to making our way in this world. While we may not have to rally our muscles to subdue wild beasts or unruly neighbors, we do need them to accomplish our daily objectives. At a minimum, we have to muster the energy to get from bed to bathroom to breakfast table. Even if we make money with our minds, rather than our bodies, chances are we’ll need the stamina to sit up and manipulate a keyboard.

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Medicare Signup Goes Awry

Some people’s recent experience with the Social Security and Medicare sign-up process has been smooth. Mine for Medicare? Not so much.
I turned 65 in November 2024 and wanted Medicare Part B to start January 1, 2025. Medicare.gov says that if you apply in the month after your birthday, Part B will start the following month. Perfect! I filed for Medicare on the Social Security site on December 2nd and even included a note that I wanted Part B coverage to start January 1.

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Building Connections

I’m  not so good in the genre of Rapper or hip hop singers, but I don’t let that deter me when my mind is in tune with a good word puzzle.  Yes, I’m hooked on the NYT word game Connections.
Chances are you played or, at least heard of the New York Times “cult”puzzles.  Over the past few years, Wordle became a staple  as part of millions of peoples daily routine, and I highly recommend the addictive Connections as a new challenge for word puzzle aficionados and word mavens.

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What I learned in 50 years about selecting and using health insurance-tips to consider-RDQ

Choosing and understanding health insurance can be a challenge. Much like retirement, it requires assumptions, understanding your risk tolerance and even budgeting.
There are several key factors. 
Deductibles before benefits are paid
Co-insurance and co-payments – your share of each charge
Out-of-pocket limits-the point annually where payments are at 100% by your insurance. 
If you have family coverage, there may be a family deductible limit of two people so each individual does not need to satisfy a deductible.

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Spotlight: Rehl

After Loss, Love Again

I belong to a club I never wanted to join: women who have outlived their husbands. Like me, millions of baby boomer women, and now Gen Xers too, will face life without their long-term partner. Thankfully, today’s widows have more choices than our great-grandmothers did. Some of us embrace living solo. Others are surprised to find companionship again, sometimes even love. That next chapter can be sweet, but it's also financially complex. I know this firsthand. Eleven years after my husband died, I remarried at age 71. But before saying “I do” again, my new husband and I worked through a host of financial and emotional questions—just like the ones I now offer below. Money matters more than you might think. A LearnVest survey found that financial issues are more than twice as likely as sex to cause tension in a relationship. Talking honestly about money isn’t just smart—it’s essential. In a study I co-led of over 4,000 widows from around the world, nearly one-quarter had re-partnered—through marriage or long-term relationships. What was their most significant piece of advice? Take your time, talk honestly, and don’t overlook the money questions. Here are 10 to get you started: Have you and your new partner had a discussion about financial matters yet? It’s tempting to avoid tough topics early on, but clarity builds trust. Who pays for what? Will you split expenses according to an agreed-upon method? Use a joint account? Keep finances separate? Where will you live, and whose name is on the deed or lease? Moving in together is exciting, but it's worth considering the legal and financial implications. Will you sell your home or keep it? If you sell, who gets the proceeds? Will you buy something together? What are your partner’s retirement plans? Do you both want to…
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Giving Twice

MY ANDROID RANG on a sunny Saturday afternoon. The screen said it was from a police station. Hesitating, I took the call. My biracial son came on. “I’m going to jail, Mom. But I didn’t do it.” Instant memories, almost 50 years old, of police guns pointing at my African husband’s head and mine. Wrong profile of an interracial couple. It wasn’t us. Checking IDs, they realized we weren’t the suspects sought. With my son’s phone call, I jumped into mama bear mode, hiring expensive and effective legal counsel to fight the charges against my son. Bottom line: Case dismissed. That incident jolted me into modifying my estate plan. I’m sharing my personal story for readers who also may want to protect and stretch an IRA inheritance for their beneficiaries. Years ago, I named my adult son as the outright beneficiary of my traditional IRA. It seemed like a good idea. But I’ve changed my mind. Here’s why. Over many years and careers, I funded several tax-deferred retirement accounts—a traditional IRA, plus various employer plans. I lived frugally and kept adding money to these accounts until I retired at age 72. That’s when I merged them all (except a Roth IRA and an inherited IRA) into my traditional IRA. Most of my living expenses are covered by Social Security, a small pension and other investments. In retirement, I withdraw only the minimum required annually by law. I don’t ever expect to deplete my now $1.7 million traditional IRA. Indeed, it’s the largest asset I own. As it continues to grow tax-deferred, it’s becoming a taxable ticking time bomb for my son as beneficiary. In addition, if my son suddenly inherits this large IRA, it might be like winning the lottery. He could find it hard to resist sharply increasing his…
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Merging Money

I TIED THE KNOT again—at age 71. Four years into widowhood, I met Charlie online. Also widowed, he and I began dating cautiously, each respectful of our late spouses and those marriages, as well as our adult children and grandchildren. We also focused on financial and legal issues. We knew from experience, and from research we had read, that financial disagreements can derail love. In an international survey of  widows and money, women shared advice about re-partnering: Talking about money matters was essential before remarriage, so as not to be blindsided later. Here are 10 vital questions that Charlie and I used to delve into financial issues before our marriage last August. If you’re contemplating a new relationship, possibly including remarriage, these money talks may also benefit you: How will we make decisions about money, such as spending, saving, handling debt and budgeting? Who pays for what? Will we use, say, a joint credit card or checking account for shared expenses? Will we live together fulltime or keep separate homes? If we live together fulltime, whose place will we choose? Or should we move into a new home? What are our plans for retirement? If already retired, what retirement lifestyle does each of us desire? Will we merge our investments or hold them separately? How will we handle it if one of us earns substantially less than the other or has fewer financial assets? What about health issues and potential costs down the road? How will we navigate those? What financial responsibilities are we willing to take on for our children or aging parents? How do each of us feel about a prenuptial agreement? Communicating honestly about money with your partner can deepen your relationship as a couple. I know it worked for Charlie and me. Observe how your partner deals…
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Not Wired to Retire

MY HUSBAND SAYS I'LL never retire. He’s right. Now in my 78th year, I have no intention of stopping work altogether to devote myself to round-the-clock leisure. That sounds unappealing, especially since I plan to live well into my 90s, just like my great-grandmother. Most of my friends opted to retire in their 60s. That includes my husband, Charlie. He retired at age 61 after 38 years as a nuclear engineer, all that time with the same company. Following the death of his first wife, Charlie continued to work at his challenging job for several more years, and then decided he was ready to go. Doing the math, he was confident that his pension and substantial savings would be more than enough to sustain his retirement. That was the right decision for Charlie. What about me? I continued my financial planning practice until age 67. But after selling that business, I wasn’t ready to retire. Rather, I shifted to an encore career that involved writing, speaking and doing research on widows, including the financial issues they face and what advisors can do to help them. That soon became a full-time commitment, including giving almost 300 presentations nationwide. I wrote for or was featured in more than 150 related publications. During this six-year phase, I maxed out my retirement savings. I also increased my charitable contributions to my “Moving Forward on Your Own” personal-giving fund, which is managed by the Community Foundation Tampa Bay. I was having too much fun to consider traditional retirement. But as the seasons changed, so did my priorities. It was time for another shift. My stamina decreased, and the allure of constant travel and hotel living waned. I wanted to spend more time with my new husband and the activities I enjoyed in our community. So,…
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Better Than Cake

ON DEC. 23, 2022, while Santa and his elves were busy loading his red sleigh with gifts, the 117th Congress was putting together some goodies of its own, formally known as the Consolidated Appropriations Act, 2023. Before we rang in the new year, President Biden signed the bill into law. Included in that 1,600-page, $1.7 trillion appropriations measure was a special present for folks like me—the so-called Legacy IRA. This allows me to increase the sum I give to charity and the money I earn on my fixed-income investments, while lowering the income tax I pay. Kind of like having my cake and eating it, too. You might also benefit from this new provision. If you’re age 70½ or older, you can make a once-in-a-lifetime tax-free rollover of up to $50,000 from your traditional IRA to fund a charitable gift annuity (CGA). That $50,000 rollover doesn’t count as taxable income—but it will count toward your required minimum distribution, a must-do for those age 73 and older. You’ll receive fixed monthly, quarterly or annual payments for life based on your age. In most cases, the payout is set by the American Council on Gift Annuities. Income can be payable for life to just you or just your spouse, or to both of you. Over many years and careers, I funded several tax-deferred retirement accounts—a traditional IRA, plus various employer plans. I lived frugally and kept adding money to these accounts until I retired at age 72. That’s when I merged them all, except a Roth IRA and an inherited IRA, into my traditional IRA. Today, most of my living expenses are covered by Social Security, a small pension and other investments. I withdraw only the required minimum distribution each year from my IRA, which—for 2023—will be almost $63,000. Ordinary income tax…
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10 Ways to Give—Without Writing a Check

Editor’s note: Jonathan Clements (1963–2025), HumbleDollar’s founder and a former Wall Street Journal personal-finance columnist, died on Sept. 21, 2025. This piece honors his plain-English approach to money and giving. Jonathan Clements taught us that money is a means to a life that’s human, hopeful, and helpful. One of the best ways to live it out is to give with intention and make an impact. In that spirit—and in this season of thanks—here are 10 ways to support the charitable causes you love without writing a check. 1) Appreciated investments Donate long-term stock, ETFs, or mutual funds. The charity receives the full market value, and you typically avoid capital gains tax (deduction available if you itemize). Ask your custodian for DTC (Depository Trust Company) instructions and the nonprofit’s account name now—mid-December cutoffs are common. 2) Qualified Charitable Distributions (QCDs) from an IRA (age 70½+) Have your IRA custodian send funds directly to a qualified public charity so the gift bypasses your taxable income and can satisfy RMDs. For 2025, the QCD limit is $108,000 per person. Each spouse with their own IRA can make up to that amount. QCDs cannot be transferred to donor-advised funds or private foundations. Complete the DTC/transfer by Dec. 31 and keep the acknowledgment. 3) Fund a donor-advised fund (DAF) with appreciated assets “Bunch” several years of giving into one contribution (often with appreciated shares), then recommend grants over time. Handy in a high-income year (sale, bonus, Roth conversion) when you want the deduction now and grants later. (Reminder: QCDs can’t go to DAFs—see #2.)  4) Beneficiary designations on accounts Name a nonprofit as a beneficiary of IRAs, brokerage, or bank accounts—often a one-page form. Use a percentage, not a dollar amount, so the gift scales with your estate. Verify the charity’s legal name and Employer…
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