The Mary Jean List
Howard Rohleder | May 25, 2023
MY FATHER-IN-LAW Carson was a stereotypical engineer—organized and precise. All four of his children know the motto “measure twice, cut once.” Carson applied these traits to his finances, which he managed on behalf of himself and Mary Jean, his wife. Mary Jean depended on this. As they aged, Carson maintained his mental acuity, but he was the first of the two to deteriorate physically. Mary Jean was strong physically but slowly surrendered to Alzheimer’s. Before her diagnosis, Carson made a concerted effort to teach Mary Jean how to manage their finances in case, someday, she might have to do it on her own. They had an investment manager, so the actual investing was taken care of. Carson wanted her to be able to navigate the banking, bill paying and check book. With an engineer’s precision, he created a list instructions laying out who to contact and how to handle the monthly financial chores. It became apparent that this wasn’t going to work. Possibly due to the early effects of as-yet undiagnosed Alzheimer’s, Mary Jean couldn’t grasp what needed to be done. That was when he turned to us. I wrote a HumbleDollar article based on what we learned from this experience. Carson’s list, which my wife and I referred to as the “Mary Jean list,” guided us when he passed away. It was such a good idea that we adopted it ourselves. Enshrined in a manila folder in the front of our file cabinet is a three-page list of steps and instructions for my wife to follow, should I die first. Just over a page is devoted to 15 steps. Each step refers to an individual contact: attorney, accountant, investment company, bank, insurance agent, pension, Social Security, health insurance… the list goes on. There’s a name, a phone number, questions…
Read more » Taxing Situations
Howard Rohleder | Apr 21, 2025
As an AARP volunteer Tax Aide for a second tax season, I completed about 100 returns and reviewed many others prepared by other volunteers. I volunteer two days a week from February 1 to April 14 at two different senior centers and continue to make observations based my clients’ tax situations. The Tax Aide program is free and not limited to seniors or AARP members. Even though most clients are retired seniors, we can serve all ages and incomes. Only more complex returns are out of scope. It is not unusual to be helping someone whose spouse has recently passed away. I had a couple of situations where the death was in 2023 which had allowed them to continue to file “married filing jointly” last year. As I prepared the 2024 return, they were hit with the implications of now filing “single.” Their standard deduction is essentially cut in half. If their income and withholding stayed the same, this meant a big tax bill. This led to difficult conversations where I explained that: 1) they had to come up with the money to pay this year’s taxes; 2) they were potentially on the hook for penalties associated with under withholding because they owed more than $1000; and 3) they had to consider increasing withholding for the current year to avoid a penalty next year. As many of our clients have low incomes, these prospects were daunting. If I saw someone where the spouse died in 2024, I was able to counsel them to increase their withholding now so they did not get caught short next year. I saw a smattering of W-2G forms. These represent gambling winnings, usually from one of our local casinos. Not surprisingly, the state and city have taken their cut and this is disclosed on the…
Read more » Falling Short
Howard Rohleder | Sep 6, 2021
I SERVED ON a scholarship committee for a local foundation. We offered awards to college students entering their sophomore year. Our coordinator had the unhappy job of explaining to some students and parents that, even though their students had a full freshman schedule and passed all their classes, they didn’t actually have sophomore standing. How can this be? The answer is remediation. Almost 24% of entering college freshmen at Ohio universities required remediation in English or math and 6% needed both. What this means is that the student must take remediation classes (and pay tuition for them) and yet get no college credits. The need for remediation is a key indicator that students are less likely to complete their college degree. Simply put, these students didn’t learn in high school what was minimally necessary to enroll in freshman English or math. After spending several years on a small town’s school board, I’m still trying to figure this out. Who do we hold responsible? There’s no shortage of suspects. I can make a case that it’s the school district’s responsibility, but I also recall the enthusiasm and creativity we saw in our teaching and administrative staffs. We could blame the victim: You can send a student to school, but you can’t make him or her learn. The students are not (choose your adjective) “motivated,” “disciplined,” “responsible” or “engaged.” And I certainly have strong feelings about the mandates from the state regarding curriculum, standardized testing, school choice and school “report cards,” which suck up administrative time and attention while detracting from educating students. In management class, we learn that if something is everyone’s responsibility then it's effectively no one’s responsibility—and it doesn’t get done. In the end, I put the primary responsibility on parents. An investment truism is that no one cares…
Read more » Save the Savers
Howard Rohleder | Sep 25, 2022
I LEARNED IN COLLEGE economics classes that there’s a time value to money. A dollar today is worth more than the promise of a dollar a year from now. Result? If you’re going to promise me a future dollar, you have to make it worth my while by paying me some interest. This was certainly true in 1980, when I graduated with an economics and management major. Admittedly, inflation was even higher back then. Still, one-year Treasury bills were paying almost 11% and the newly popular money market mutual funds were yielding more than 12%. Today, after rates hovering near zero for years, one-year Treasury bills are yielding over 4% for the first time since 2007, while my money market fund is paying more than 2%. The years of low interest rates have been perpetuated by one financial crisis after another: the dot-com bust, the Great Recession and the COVID-19 economic shutdown. Just as one crisis abated and rates started to rise, another crisis came along. One consequence is we have an entire generation who think that near zero interest rates are “normal.” There are also powerful economic players who relish this situation. Stock investors see share prices propelled higher as folks seek an alternative to the tiny return on their cash. Businesses can borrow to make capital investments at a low cost. Real estate investors and developers can also borrow cheaply to launch their projects. Perhaps most significant, governments can run larger deficits because their borrowing costs are low. Who loses? One answer is responsible individual savers. This was true of my mother. She had diligently saved all her life, shopping carefully and preparing for retirement. When she retired, she had no debt of any kind, while keeping a lot of cash in certificates of deposit and money market…
Read more » College or Plan B?
Howard Rohleder | Aug 30, 2021
WE’RE PROGRAMMED to believe that a four-year college degree is the only path to success. After spending several years on both a small-town school board and an economic development board, I saw the disservice that this belief is doing to many of our students. Students and their parents are led to believe that everyone is taking a college prep curriculum in high school. There are indeed students who are actually preparing for college. Then there are many more students who think they’re preparing for college, although they have little chance of succeeding there. The statistics are bleak. Getting into college is relatively easy. It’s much harder to earn a degree in four years in a field that has good job prospects. Fully 40% of students entering a four-year college fail to graduate within six years. Half of those who do graduate never use their college major in their careers. Both groups risk running up so much student debt that it hobbles their start in life. In most areas of lending, the borrower is expected to put up collateral. Not so with student loans. It’s hard not to qualify. The collateral being offered is the student’s future earnings—an intangible. It’s left to the borrower, not the bank, to determine if that’s a good risk. What are the student’s prospects of graduating? In how many years? With what major? Unfortunately, many families never answer these questions before borrowing, only to discover later that they can’t repay their loans on time. College isn’t for everyone, but teenagers often tell adults what they want to hear. “Are you planning to go to college?” Kids can sense that the desired answer is, “Yes.” Parents should take a more active role in gauging their children’s career prospects. It begins in elementary school when students are asked,…
Read more » Free Lunch?
Howard Rohleder | Aug 11, 2025
On the Fidelity account page that displays my holdings online, I noticed banners saying I could make extra money by lending my securities. I ignored this on the premise of “too good to be true.” Then I got an email from Fidelity advertising their Fully Paid Lending Program and read what they had to say. By following a link, I was able to get an assessment of each of my accounts telling me which holdings might be eligible and how much they might yield. The account assessments said I did have eligible securities, all of which were ETFs, and that I could earn interest by loaning them to others, apparently short sellers. The interest estimates ranged from 1% to 10% based on the loan market for each security. This interest rate is security specific and varies from time to time based on the market for each security. Interest accumulates during the month and is paid out after month end. Still skeptical, I did an online search independent of Fidelity and found that other brokerages have substantially identical programs, including Vanguard, Schwab and Interactive Brokers. The primary caution I picked up from my online search was that tax favored qualified dividends paid on a security while it is on loan will be passed on to you, but it will be in the form of ordinary income not as a qualified dividend. Of course, this only matters in taxable accounts. The security does not have SIPC insurance coverage while it is on loan. The program description explains that when a security is loaned out, Fidelity deposits an equivalent dollar amount into a bank account as collateral in the event the borrower fails to return the security. The collateral is adjusted periodically to account for changes in the market value of the loaned…
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