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Jonathan and me

"I started writing and being paid, but at tax time it was a hassle. It didn’t make sense so I asked Jonathan not to pay me anymore. I probably wrote more after that just for fun…and to see who was most easily upset😎"
- R Quinn
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College

A Million Words to a Million Dollars?

"Mark, I can’t make any claims to extraordinary lifetime earnings, still, as one who was a poor reader until taking a speed reading class in 9th grade, I can say without any doubt that reading enhanced my life in many ways.  Reading taught me about investing, (I’m still learning), and opened the door to my becoming a tax preparer. I get much enjoyment from reading a good book. Reading even led me to the lovable characters at the HumbleDollar."
- Dan Smith
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Spending

Is an 18% Service Charge a TIP?

"That's an old annoyance, Mark. In his 18th century biography of Samuel Johnson, James Boswell relates a scolding he received from the older Johnson for tipping a waiter a full shilling, rather than the smaller, customary amount. Johnson said he did it for vanity, and that he would set the expectations for tips too high for those who could not afford it. In that case we can blame a wealthy Scotsman, rather than an American, for misbehaving on his travels."
- Edmund Marsh
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Life Events

Choosing a CCRC (Life PlanCommunity)

"David, My experience with CCRC comes via my MIL. She is 97 and has lived in one in WV for 2 years. This is near her oldest son who lives nearby. It was his selection and an eyeopener for the family. Her physical issues have included COPD, osteoarthritis and macular degeneration. Her experiences over the last 15 years were in a PA senior complex where she lived in a rented duplex. No buy-in. Services were available but it was al-a-carte and basically independent living. She was also living with her handicapped son during that time. She moved with us to MI and she was in a small, assisted living facility with a double room to accommodate all her stuff that she refused to part with. No buy in was required. Her son moved in with us. Two years ago she moved to the CCRC in WV. Buy in was required. She moved into the Independent living area and had to hire personal caregivers to manage her ADL's. It was not the appropriate placement so after getting on a waiting list she moved to assisted living after 9 months. When you move to a different unit in the facility you have to pay $3000 for new carpet and painting. She is still using personal caregivers for about 3 hours a day to help her get dressed, help her with breakfast in her room (facility requires that you be "fully" dressed to eat in dining room, different from previous facility), and provide with a daily shower (facility provide 2 showers per week). To summarize, facilities are different. CCRC's vary. The level of care at MIL's facility has to be supplemented by outside help. They have another area for Memory Care and rehab. It has been at capacity most of the time. If she needed that type of care, she would have to go elsewhere. Her current cost with outside caregivers is over $100k/year. Good luck in your search."
- Harold Tynes
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From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements

Investing

My Investment Sin

I'LL CONCEDE IT'S HARD to justify—but I don’t believe it’s 100% unjustifiable. At issue: my strategy of overweighting stocks during big market declines. I…
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Cars

Saved 85 Bucks

"My brother in law who is an experienced mechanic and race car driver says to let the turbo engines idle a little while before shutting them off. Too bad I forget more than remember to do so."
- R Quinn
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Careers

The Value Of Trust

"“keeping our promises, and taking pride in our work” seems to be sorely missing these days. I sound like an old codger. "
- David Lancaster
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Taxes

2026 Charitable Deductions

"I agree. I'm a big fan and have learned so much from the Kitces site.The Kitces article covered the topic in its usual thorough fashion, with excellent examples and figures. I would note that, unlike HumbleDollar, Kitces' writers are finance professionals, and generally write for other professionals. But it is one of my go-to sites for information."
- Rick Connor
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Taxes

Time to QCD

"My dad was a long time, then emeritus board member of the Shriners Hospital in Montreal."
- David Lancaster
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Happiness

The Number Is Not The Answer

YEARS AGO, while practicing law, I was a frequent contributor to Humble Dollar. I loved Jonathan Clements’s vision for the site - a corner of the financial universe built on clarity, frugality, and the quiet dignity of living within one’s means. Then my life took a sharp pivot. I left legal practice to teach gifted-and-talented students and coach varsity athletics at a public magnet high school. Almost immediately, my submissions here dried up. I was consuming entire days guiding brilliant teenagers through complex history, breaking down match film, and grading papers long past sunset and on weekends. I wrote to Jonathan with genuine regret, apologizing for going dark on such a wonderful enterprise. His reply was quintessential Jonathan: he explained to me with characteristic, succinct warmth that his own adult child was a teacher, adding that he wasn’t sure there was a higher calling on Earth. He was right about the calling. But what nobody warns you about a calling is its capacity to consume you whole if you let it. The Cliff Edge This past year, the math simply broke. Between high-load AP teaching, head coaching, and the relentless calendar of high school athletics, I was regularly clocking 17- to 18-hour days during soccer season. My central nervous system finally redlined badly. Worse, I realized with a gut punch that I had missed nearly the entire senior year of my oldest son while running on that treadmill. This realization hit me at his graduation when I felt physically exhausted and unable to enjoy what should have been one of the proudest moments of my life. I was determined to make it up to him in whatever way I could (for example, we are visiting him today at college, and we go often to see him in San Antonio - a 90-minute drive from Austin). Moreover, I will not repeat this mistake and will enjoy the years I have left with my two high-school-aged daughters. With teenagers preparing to leave the nest and a close family member facing severe illness, I stepped away. I took a sabbatical. Maybe it will delay our retirement slightly, but as I will express further below, I am not sure I will ever really retire. The Void Financial planners love to reduce retirement to a single milestone: "The Number." The spreadsheets run 10,000 Monte Carlo simulations, the house is paid off, the withdrawal rates are dialed in, and the industry assures you: You have arrived. You are safe. At 45, I had not retired in the traditional sense, but I had stepped off the cliff of full-time professional identity because my body told me I needed to. And what I discovered in the sudden, unanticipated quiet is something many retirees spend years agonizing over without having the vocabulary to describe: The number is not the answer. When you abruptly remove the machinery of a demanding daily routine, you don't instantly find nirvana. You find a void. In a recent discussion on non-financial retirement readiness, former financial adviser Tyler Gardner framed this dilemma in his video on non-financial retirement needs around Self-Determination Theory, pioneered by psychologists Edward Deci and Richard Ryan. Deci and Ryan posited that human well-being rests on three basic psychological nutrients: competence, relatedness, and autonomy. For all its stress and bureaucratic friction, a demanding career supplies all three automatically. When you walk away from work, those three nutrients can vanish before your celebratory cake is even eaten. If you don't deliberately rebuild them, the fallout can be physiological. The Trap of "Mental Retirement" In aging literature, researchers study a sobering phenomenon bluntly termed "mental retirement" - the cognitive softening that occurs when a person ceases to be intellectually stretched. A decade-long study from Binghamton University examining China’s rural pension expansion revealed that early retirement significantly accelerated cognitive decline. Crucially, the researchers noted that the negative impact of reduced social and mental engagement outweighed the physical benefits of improved nutrition and sleep that the pension provided. Work forced us to solve problems under pressure. Sabbaticals and retirements do not. To counteract that loss, I had to create self-imposed challenges. During my grueling years in the classroom, exercise was the first thing pushed off the ledge. On leave, I reclaimed the time. I started chasing benchmarks for physical competence. Recently, I set out to regain a grueling standard: 10 continuous minutes on the Jacob’s Ladder. It was a benchmark an elite special operator had given me when I served as an Army JAG supporting special operations in Afghanistan in my late twenties. My first time back on the ladder? I barely completed one minute and staggered off it trembling and nauseous. But every week, I kept working at it - sometimes adding a few seconds and other times several minutes until I got to 10 minutes again this week. Crossing that threshold didn't merely burn calories; it restored a measurable gradient of physical competence and, with it, confidence. Whether it is conquering a brutal conditioning standard, learning a language, or mastering an instrument, we need something where we can objectively say: I am better at this today than I was last month. I will now find a new physical benchmark to pursue, while coming back occasionally to that masochistic Jacob's Ladder. The 40 Invisible People The second nutrient, relatedness, is where most folks get ambushed. When people contemplate retirement, they assume their social health depends on their spouse or a handful of close friends. But work provides something entirely different: a vast scaffolding of "weak ties." In a landmark 2014 study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science, researchers Gillian Sandstrom and Elizabeth Dunn found that daily subjective happiness and feelings of belonging rose noticeably on days when people had more peripheral interactions - even something as fleeting as a 20-second genuine exchange with a coffee barista. Broader public health research reinforces this with astonishing gravity. A massive meta-analysis led by Julianne Holt-Lunstad spanning over 300,000 individuals found that strong social integration increased survival likelihood by 50%. Remarkably, the mortality benefit was strongest for complex, varied social networks (the diverse web of people you bump into) rather than simple binary measures like living with someone. When I taught, I had hundreds of involuntary interactions before lunch: hallway greetings, banter with the front desk, coaching video sessions, cafeteria check-ins. On my sabbatical, I plunged into writing a historical thriller called The Blood Money Ledger set during the Vietnam War - a passion project rooted in my love of history and informed by my own military service. I was thrilled to find that the fiction flowed with unexpected ease. In fact, I am now leaning toward turning my main character, Tom Calder, into a series of books about morality, the law, and institutional rot. But writing is, by definition, solitary confinement. Left entirely unmanaged, isolation is insidious. To survive it, I had to engineer artificial friction:
  • I go to the gym at the exact same hour every day to see the familiar faces of regulars.
  • Once a week, a close friend and I meet at a local coffee shop; he reads while I hammer out words for the book. It’s quiet, parallel work, but the ambient presence makes the solitary act of writing sustainable.
  • I signed up for an evening furniture-making class to work with my hands alongside people I wouldn't otherwise meet - a skill I am going to start out terrible at and eventually become... less terrible at.
  • I took on a volunteer docent shift at the Austin History Center, trading archival stories with curious strangers.
None of these people are lifelong confidants - except my close friend who joins me for coffee. But together, they rebuild the 40 casual touchpoints work used to gift me for free. Anticipation Over Accumulation The final hazard is structural: time without seams. When we dream of retirement, we picture unstructured calendars and checking off items on an expansive bucket list. But behavioral psychology shows we often misunderstand how human satisfaction works. In a well-known 2010 study by Dutch researcher Jeroen Nawijn tracking over 1,500 adults, vacationers exhibited significantly higher happiness before their trips than non-vacationers. The post-trip happiness bump, however, was negligible and evaporated rapidly. Even though I haven't written for Humble Dollar much in the past several years, I have been a frequent lurker, and know that this is a topic we all understand well. The engine of joy is almost entirely anticipation, not completion. A bucket list should never be treated like a grocery list where the goal is an empty page. If you clear out your list with no new ambitions behind it, life goes flat. The real art is maintaining a continuous horizon of things you are eagerly anticipating: an upcoming course, a seasonal trip, an archival project, or a fresh manuscript draft. We are in the midst of using high school and college graduation presents as family adventures we take. For my son's graduation gift - he loves soccer - I took him and his soccer-obsessed sister to the World Cup. My other daughter, who is very much not soccer-obsessed, and my wife visited a spa together for significantly less money. Win-win. The Real Ledger The Monday morning after your final Friday, your spreadsheet will not ask how you are doing, provide an intellectual hill to climb, or hand you an unexpected laugh across a desk. The number is just the admission ticket that we too often obsess over. The actual show begins when you decide what will make your days count.  John Goodell was a deputy director of policy and general counsel at the Texas Pension Review Board. Currently an Army Reservist, he previously served 14 years on active duty before leaving to become the general counsel at the Texas Veterans Commission. John has spent much of his career working with public sector employees on tax, investment, estate planning and retirement issues. His biggest passion is spending time with his wife and kids. Check out John's earlier articles.
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Abuse

Jonathan’s Daily Musing, 10/13

"Yes, Dan, I made it up, though I had a little help from the old fool and his money saying. Steal away. It’ll sound far better in your Yankee accent than my Irish brogue 😉"
- Mark Crothers
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Behavior

Jonathan and me

"I started writing and being paid, but at tax time it was a hassle. It didn’t make sense so I asked Jonathan not to pay me anymore. I probably wrote more after that just for fun…and to see who was most easily upset😎"
- R Quinn
Read more »

College

A Million Words to a Million Dollars?

"Mark, I can’t make any claims to extraordinary lifetime earnings, still, as one who was a poor reader until taking a speed reading class in 9th grade, I can say without any doubt that reading enhanced my life in many ways.  Reading taught me about investing, (I’m still learning), and opened the door to my becoming a tax preparer. I get much enjoyment from reading a good book. Reading even led me to the lovable characters at the HumbleDollar."
- Dan Smith
Read more »

Spending

Is an 18% Service Charge a TIP?

"That's an old annoyance, Mark. In his 18th century biography of Samuel Johnson, James Boswell relates a scolding he received from the older Johnson for tipping a waiter a full shilling, rather than the smaller, customary amount. Johnson said he did it for vanity, and that he would set the expectations for tips too high for those who could not afford it. In that case we can blame a wealthy Scotsman, rather than an American, for misbehaving on his travels."
- Edmund Marsh
Read more »

Life Events

Choosing a CCRC (Life PlanCommunity)

"David, My experience with CCRC comes via my MIL. She is 97 and has lived in one in WV for 2 years. This is near her oldest son who lives nearby. It was his selection and an eyeopener for the family. Her physical issues have included COPD, osteoarthritis and macular degeneration. Her experiences over the last 15 years were in a PA senior complex where she lived in a rented duplex. No buy-in. Services were available but it was al-a-carte and basically independent living. She was also living with her handicapped son during that time. She moved with us to MI and she was in a small, assisted living facility with a double room to accommodate all her stuff that she refused to part with. No buy in was required. Her son moved in with us. Two years ago she moved to the CCRC in WV. Buy in was required. She moved into the Independent living area and had to hire personal caregivers to manage her ADL's. It was not the appropriate placement so after getting on a waiting list she moved to assisted living after 9 months. When you move to a different unit in the facility you have to pay $3000 for new carpet and painting. She is still using personal caregivers for about 3 hours a day to help her get dressed, help her with breakfast in her room (facility requires that you be "fully" dressed to eat in dining room, different from previous facility), and provide with a daily shower (facility provide 2 showers per week). To summarize, facilities are different. CCRC's vary. The level of care at MIL's facility has to be supplemented by outside help. They have another area for Memory Care and rehab. It has been at capacity most of the time. If she needed that type of care, she would have to go elsewhere. Her current cost with outside caregivers is over $100k/year. Good luck in your search."
- Harold Tynes
Read more »

From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements

Investing

My Investment Sin

I'LL CONCEDE IT'S HARD to justify—but I don’t believe it’s 100% unjustifiable. At issue: my strategy of overweighting stocks during big market declines. I…
Read more »

Cars

Saved 85 Bucks

"My brother in law who is an experienced mechanic and race car driver says to let the turbo engines idle a little while before shutting them off. Too bad I forget more than remember to do so."
- R Quinn
Read more »

Careers

The Value Of Trust

"“keeping our promises, and taking pride in our work” seems to be sorely missing these days. I sound like an old codger. "
- David Lancaster
Read more »

Taxes

2026 Charitable Deductions

"I agree. I'm a big fan and have learned so much from the Kitces site.The Kitces article covered the topic in its usual thorough fashion, with excellent examples and figures. I would note that, unlike HumbleDollar, Kitces' writers are finance professionals, and generally write for other professionals. But it is one of my go-to sites for information."
- Rick Connor
Read more »

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