Dream Retirement – Is it fading away?
smr1082 | Oct 31, 2024
Jamie Dimon says, "The American dream is disappearing—and half the public no longer believes in it". Soaring costs of housing, child care, education, and health care are making it harder than ever for the middle class to achieve their dream. Pew research study found that while 64% of upper-income Americans say the American dream still exists, 39% of lower-income Americans say the same – a gap of 25 percentage points. About two-thirds of adults ages 65 and older (68%) say the American dream is still achievable, as do 61% of those 50 to 64. By comparison, only about four-in-ten adults under 50 (42%) say it’s still possible for people to achieve the American dream. Many in their fifties are part of the "sandwich" generation, supporting their children as well as their parents or other elderly relatives. This takes a toll on their career, income levels and savings for retirement. Health care and long term care costs are constantly rising. How could they hope for a dream retirement? Even if one had diligently saved and invested over the years, unknown events can derail a retirement. A serious market downturn could affect you financially. It is not all about money, though. Serious health issues, loss of a spouse, divorce, children needing financial help, and many other unforeseen events can set back a happy retirement. While I have done a fair bit of thinking and preparation to have a happy retirement, nothing is certain. Evaluating potential unforeseen risks has been a challenge. How do you define your dream retirement? How will you prepare for it? Or just do the best you can, be flexible and go with the flow?
Read more » What should be our % cash allocation in investment portfolio?
smr1082 | Nov 6, 2024
The obvious answer is that it depends on your financial situation, age, net worth and risk tolerance. I am trying to decide on the right amount of cash I should hold. I found this through internet search on this topic: "According to the U.S. Trust Survey of Affluent Americans, investors with over $3 million in investable assets typically hold around 15% of their portfolios in cash and cash equivalents. However, the amount of cash an investor holds can vary depending on their age and net worth: The Silent Generation Investors in this age group (ages 77 and up) tend to hold around 23% of their portfolio in cash.This is because they prioritize capital preservation and stability. Millennials Younger high-net-worth Millennials tend to hold around 11% of their portfolio in cash. This is because they have a greater appetite for risk and growth. Here is a link that provides more details: https://finance.yahoo.com/news/guess-percentage-wealth-rich-keep-170015736.html What has been your strategy to decide on what % cash to hold in your investment portfolio?
Read more » Dump the 60/40 and target date funds for 100% stock plus annuity portfolio?
smr1082 | Feb 5, 2025
We have been discussing the value of a 60/40 investment portfolio in HD as a way to balance risk/reward over the long term. A report I read today suggests an all-equity portfolio, with a focus on international stocks, could be the key to maximizing retirement wealth compared to 60/40 allocation or target-date funds. It says an all equities portfolio is the far better way to build the largest nest egg possible for retirement; to generate a larger paycheck in retirement; to make sure you don't run out of money in retirement; to create the largest possible bequest for your loved ones. The recommendation is to Invest 100% of your savings earmarked for retirement in equities: one-third in U.S. stocks and two-thirds in international stocks. If you are more risk averse, having an annuity to cover basic expenses may make it easier to use an aggressive stock allocation with the remaining investments. This is different from my current allocations. I am exploring any changes I should make. See link https://www.morningstar.com/news/marketwatch/20250104270/100-stocks-for-retirement-a-new-study-says-dump-the-6040-portfolio-and-target-date-funds Some may already be using such a strategy or similar ones. What are the pros and cons based on your experience? Would you consider changing your current strategy?
Read more » Aging With Others
Sundar Mohan Rao | Apr 10, 2024
IF SOMEONE TOLD ME 10 years ago that I’d end up living in a 55-plus community, I would have laughed. Our plan was to stay in the home we loved and age in place. What happened? Our initial move to a 55-plus community was driven solely by convenience. My company transferred me to Atlanta in 2021. We wanted to downsize to an apartment, but finding one close to work was challenging. Our son pointed out that there was a 55-plus apartment community close to my workplace. We liked it and signed a lease. This rental “active adult apartment community” had a large three-story building with 140 modern apartments. The community had great amenities—a clubhouse, swimming pool, a salon, movie theater, gym, dog park and electronic security. It was located in a busy area, with lots of restaurants and shops nearby. But most residents were much older than us and weren’t as active as advertised. Moreover, it turned out many residents were living there temporarily, making it hard to develop a sense of community. The building charged a low initial monthly rent—with the first month free—to attract new tenants. But for the second year, we were hit with a 30% rent increase. That prompted many residents to leave—a downside to rental communities. Still, we liked the concept of a 55-plus community, but decided to buy instead of rent, this time in Tampa. We had some friends in the area. Weather and lower taxes were also big draws. Our new 55-plus community is a magnet for ethnic Indians, but otherwise it’s typical of 55-plus communities in Florida. We moved here in late 2022. There are lots of cultural activities in and outside the community to keep us busy. Several major medical facilities are close by. The community has a clubhouse with meeting…
Read more » What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?
smr1082 | Nov 17, 2024
After making progress on estate planning, documenting financial records, and updating family history, it suddenly occurred to me that I should make a list of life lessons I have learned along my life journey. Obviously, these life lessons are a lot more than strictly financial, but certainly they will contribute to overall success and a fulfilling life for the next generation. I came up with these and put them in a document along with my financial records. Hopefully, someday it will help the next generations in my family. Here is my list of 10. 1. Live your own dreams, not someone else's 2. Believe and invest in yourself 3. Focus on health, family, financial security and a purpose larger than yourself 4. Be a lifelong learner 5. Be self aware and know who you are and what makes you tick 6. Learn from failures and keep moving 7. Be positive to overcome life's many challenges 8. Give to receive 9. Start small, think big 10. Leave everyone better than you found them Everyone has different life experiences and value systems. What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?
Read more » When should one give up control over finances?
smr1082 | Dec 11, 2024
Living in a 55+ community, I have heard about some elderly residents who have issues regarding unpaid bills, delayed payments, losing money in scams, and investing in high risk stocks. These residents were financially very savvy a few years ago and now they have difficulty keeping up. In some cases, their children have started handling their finances. An article ( " Dollars and Dementia - An early warning system" in AARP Bulletin, December 2025 issue) points out this could be an early warning sign that their cognitive abilities are declining. A study, cited in this article, found that 7.4 million older adults with dementia or cognitive impairment were managing their household finances on their own. Giving up financial control is a very hard thing to do. It is a highly emotional decision. I have seen children taking away car keys when parents cannot drive safely. This may be a lot easier than handing over financial control. This study found that nearly 84% of survey respondents would not want to give up financial control at the onset of cognitive decline, preferring to wait for a moment before they would completely lose the ability to manage their own money. What has been your experience dealing with such a situation? If you are a retiree, how will you prepare in advance so the transition is smooth, when the time comes?
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Mark Crothers is a retired small business owner from the UK with a keen interest in personal finance and simple living. Married to his high school sweetheart, with daughters and grandchildren, he knows the importance of building a secure financial future. With an aversion to social media, he prefers to spend his time on his main passions: reading, scratch cooking, racket sports, and hiking.
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