As you pile up the monthly fixed living costs—think mortgage or rent, car payments, utilities, cable TV—you pile on the financial stress.
When your neighbors show off their remodeled kitchen, you stare in terror and try to imagine how much it cost.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.NO. 27: RISK and potential return are inextricably linked. If an investment holds out the prospect of high returns, we should presume it’s highly risky—even if we can’t figure out what the risk is.
SEQUENCE OF RETURNS. Our investment success hinges not only on long-run market returns, but also on when good and bad performance occur. Ideally, we get lousy results when we’re saving, so we buy stocks and bonds at bargain prices. But as we approach retirement age, we should hope for a huge stock market rally, so we can cash out at lofty valuations.
CAP ALTERNATIVE investments. How much do you have in various alternative investments—everything from gold to commodities to hedge funds? As a rule, keep your allocation to 10% or less of your total portfolio’s value, and favor simpler, less expensive options, such as mutual funds that focus on gold-mining stocks and real estate investment trusts.
NO. 40: NOTHING generates spectacular returns forever. Investment trends can last far longer than expected and, after a few years, further gains can seem inevitable. But that sense of inevitability encourages investors to pay prices far above what the fundamentals justify—and those fundamentals eventually drag the highfliers back to earth.
NO. 27: RISK and potential return are inextricably linked. If an investment holds out the prospect of high returns, we should presume it’s highly risky—even if we can’t figure out what the risk is.
I’LL BE TURNING 65 this year, so I’ve been researching my Medicare options. Even though I work in health care—and many of my patients are on Medicare—the task of choosing a plan is no less onerous for me.
I’ve read the information provided on Medicare.gov and watched numerous YouTube videos from insurance brokers. These brokers tend to support two types of Medicare coverage. Retirees might opt for a bundle that includes Medicare Part A,
RONALD REAGAN SAID “the nine most terrifying words in the English language are ‘I’m from the government and I’m here to help’.” Government programs are put in place to address real concerns. But they often come with unintended consequences.
When created in 1965, Medicare addressed the real need of senior citizens who couldn’t afford health care, just as Social Security was established in 1935 to help seniors in poverty. Both have become pillars of American retirement,
I WENT TO SEE MY primary care physician about a medical problem. I actually felt pretty good and wasn’t in any pain. I was fairly confident there wasn’t anything seriously wrong with me, so—when the doctor greeted me and asked how I was doing—I said, “I’m doing well.”
When he responded, “No, you’re not,” I knew this wasn’t going to go well.
I gave him my explanation of what might be causing my physical condition.
I used to be a big fan of choice when it came to employee benefit plans including life insurance, health insurance and, of courses 401k investment options.
When working I crafted a plan with lots of choices. Employees said they wanted choice, it was all the rage at the time. Our unions were not so thrilled, but went along.
The unions were right and I was wrong.
People may say they want choice, but when faced with it for very important decisions,
IT PAINS ME TO SAY this, but I hurt—everywhere. I’ll start at the bottom and work my way up. My feet hurt, my knees hurt, my hips hurt, my back hurts and my shoulders hurt. One more thing: I can’t remember. My memory is in decline.
Cataract surgery improved my eyesight. Hearing aids mean my grandkids don’t have to be two rooms over when we watch TV together. Exercise seems to reduce my pain slightly and increase mobility.
I TURNED AGE 64 over the Labor Day weekend. One of my goals for my 65th orbit of the sun is to really dig into Medicare.
Luckily, I have a few friends and relatives who have blazed the trail before me. I’ve also studied Medicare as part of some financial planning courses I took a few years ago. Still, one topic I’ve never researched in detail is Medicare’s income-related monthly adjustment amount, otherwise known as IRMAA.
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MONEY MAY NOT BE the root of all evil, but it does seem to be the source of much stress. A therapist once told me it was the No. 1 reason that couples came to see her. Today, fewer Americans express satisfaction with their financial situation than they did in the early 1970s—despite living more than twice as well. The Federal Reserve found 44% of American adults either couldn’t handle a $400 financial emergency or would cover it by going into debt or selling household possessions. Much of this angst could be avoided with just a handful of simple financial steps. Suppose you’re the parent of young adults in their 20s. What would it cost to set them on the right financial path, so one day they, too, will be HumbleDollar readers? It is, alas, not nearly as cheap as I had hoped—which may explain why so many Americans lead lives dogged by money worries. Consider the price tag on six key financial steps: 1. Build up an emergency fund. You might open a high-yield savings account for your kids and add $250 every month, with perhaps both you and your children chipping in. The monthly sum is arbitrary, but the idea behind it isn’t: You want your adult children to have enough set aside to muddle through at least a few months. That’ll provide a modest safety net—and, I suspect, significantly reduce your children’s day-to-day money worries. 2. Pay off credit card debt. Among older college students who carry credit cards, the average balance is some $1,100, according to a 2016 study. Got kids who accumulated card debt during their college years? You might help them pay it off. 3. Stash $250 every month in a Roth IRA. While debt can be depressing, saving money is uplifting: It gives you hope the future will be brighter. A Roth is a great investment vehicle for those in their 20s, thanks to the decades of tax-free growth they’ll enjoy. True, they won’t get the initial tax deduction that traditional retirement accounts offer. But for those in their 20s on relatively low salaries, that tax deduction probably isn’t worth all that much. An added bonus: Roth contributions can be withdrawn at any time, with no taxes or penalties owed, as long as you don’t touch the account’s investment gains. That means the Roth could supplement your children’s emergency fund. 4. Purchase health insurance. You may have the option of keeping your adult children on your employer’s health plan until they turn age 26. If not, consider helping them buy coverage on their own. In their 20s, this will be relatively inexpensive—perhaps $300 a month, depending on how competitive the local insurance market is, and maybe even lower if your adult children qualify for a tax credit. Make no mistake: The potential downside of skipping coverage is huge. Indeed, as a parent, helping to pay for your adult children's health insurance ranks as financial self-defense. If they need major medical care and don’t have coverage, you will undoubtedly ride to the rescue—and it will likely cost you dearly. 5. Buy $250,000 in term life insurance. If someone doesn’t have a spouse or children, this probably isn’t necessary. But for those in their 20s, the insurance would be cheap, perhaps $330 a year. Want to turn your adult children into buyers of term insurance—and steer them away from costly cash-value life insurance? That $330 might be a small price to pay. 6. Get a will. Your adult children may have relatively few assets, so this might also seem unnecessary. Still, wills are cheap: LegalZoom.com’s starting price is $69 and Nolo.com is $59.99. Once your adult children have a will, it will become part of their financial mindset—and there’s a decent chance they’ll update it regularly. To be sure, there are other potential steps you might take, like subsidizing your adult children’s 401(k) contributions—assuming they have access to one—or helping them buy disability insurance. But you’ll likely find the above six steps already carry too steep a price tag. Add them all up and the first-year cost might be $11,000. What if you cut the six steps down to three—and focus on building up your children’s emergency fund, paying off credit card debt and purchasing health insurance? Even that could potentially cost almost $8,000. If you can swing it, it would make a great graduation gift. What if you can’t? If you have sound financial advice to offer, that could be just as valuable. [xyz-ihs snippet="Donate"]Smoke, Sparks and Retirement Spending.
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- Contributions are tax-deductible
- Earnings grow tax-free
- Withdrawals are tax-free if used for medical expenses
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Importantly, before enrolling in a high deductible plan, you need to decide whether it’s worth it in the first place. You will generally receive the biggest benefit from an HDHP if you are in good health (more on this in a bit). 2. You aren’t enrolled in Medicare. 3. You cannot be claimed as a dependent. Importantly, the HSA balance never expires. This account is always yours to keep, even if you leave your employer. Some people confuse an HSA with an FSA (which does expire, aside from a small potential rollover option). The account typically works like a “bank account,” where you make deposits and can withdraw money via online transfers or checks, or invest it like a brokerage account. Contributions The 2026 contribution limit is $4,400 for an individual plan and $8,750 for a family plan, with an additional $1,000 catch-up contribution if you are 55 or older. The contribution limit includes both your contributions and your employer’s contributions. If your employer allows it, contributing to an HSA via payroll deduction is generally better than contributing directly, as it avoids the 7.65% FICA (Social Security and Medicare) taxes. Direct, after-tax contributions only save on income tax when filing, missing the payroll tax savings. Withdrawals Withdrawals for medical expenses are tax-free. IRS Publication 502 has information about which expenses qualify as medical expenses. In addition, as long as you keep proper records, you can reimburse yourself in a later year. I keep track of all my medical expenses in a spreadsheet (e.g., with columns for EOB documents, receipts, bills, etc). I plan to reimburse myself in the future, assuming the law doesn’t change. In 2025, House Bill 6183 was proposed to change the reimbursement limit to expenses no older than two years, but it didn’t gain any traction. If there is a change in legislation, I plan to reimburse myself for all prior medical expenses before enactment. Once you turn 65, you can withdraw money from your HSA for any reason without penalty. However, you will owe income taxes on any non-medical withdrawals, effectively making this similar to a Traditional 401(k) or IRA. Inheriting an HSA Per Publication 969, if your spouse is the designated beneficiary of your HSA, it will be treated as your spouse’s HSA after your death. If your spouse isn’t the designated beneficiary (e.g. your child is the beneficiary), the account stops being an HSA and the fair market value of the HSA becomes taxable to the beneficiary in the year in which you pass away. This is why tax free HSA dollars should ideally be spent before passing down an inheritance due to tax inefficiency. On the other hand, naming a beneficiary in a low-income tax bracket to receive the deceased person’s HSA can also be beneficial for tax purposes. HSA can be powerful, but make sure the math makes sense. If you spend thousands of dollars on medical bills, having a standard plan could outweigh all the tax savings you can get.Managing Investment Risk
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