Care Money Can’t Buy
Marjorie Kondrack | Sep 23, 2023
FULL OF PROMISES AND plans, we start retirement in our 60s. It surprises me when people reach age 65 and say, “I don’t feel old.” That’s because, at 65, we aren’t. We’re still in our go-go years. We still have the time and energy to conquer the world, visit new places, experience new adventures. The 70s, by contrast, are the slow-go years. Maybe we need replacement parts, to slather on Bengay, to load up on Advil. We’re still good to go—just a little more carefully and maybe not as often. As people inch towards their 80s, most of us enter the no-go years. We don’t go out as much. We might head out for the “early bird” special, come home and watch the evening news, and go to bed early. The world tends to close in on us as we experience loss in many different ways. And contrary to what others say, bird watching is not that riveting—and not how I want to spend my no-go years. Instead, my preferred remedy is friends, if only because your family can sometimes drive you crazy or, worse still, decide they don’t even like you. Here's a snapshot of my friends, in no particular order of importance: Cindy and Tom. Last Thanksgiving, they visited, ladened with a home-cooked feast fit for a king’s table. Tom has the most cheerful countenance of anyone I’ve ever met and is an expert on fixing anything. Wouldn’t you just love Mr. Fixit to live next door? As a bonus, Cindy is a gourmet cook. Unfortunately, they moved away from our neighborhood, but they remain like family. Nancy. Stray animals find their way to Nancy’s house and she cares for them. She could rival Martha Stewart in entertaining. Her “hen parties” are memorable and so much fun. But…
Read more » Stay Positive
Marjorie Kondrack | Jan 23, 2024
WE ALL HAVE BAD DAYS. But for some folks, it seems every day is a bad one. No matter how good things seem to be, they’ll focus on the one bad thing. Think about the negative thoughts that you have: Are they helpful? Are they true? Does the bad in your life outweigh the good? Has negative thinking become a habit? Do others really need to know about all the bad things in your life? Why do others see the situation more positively and what enables them to think that way? What could you do to think more positively? These thoughts were prompted by the recent death of Charlie Munger. He and Warren Buffett were friends and partners for decades. The Wall Street Journal’s Jason Zweig wrote that Munger “possessed what philosophers call epistemic humility: a profound sense of how little anyone can know and how important it is to open and change your mind.” In a 2019 interview with CNBCs Becky Quick, when asked about the secret to a long and happy life, Munger answered: “It’s so simple…. You don’t have a lot of envy. You don’t have a lot of resentment. You don’t overspend your income. You stay cheerful in spite of your troubles. You deal with reliable people and you do what you’re supposed to do. And all these simple rules work so well to make your life better.” In the interview, he advocated “staying cheerful… because it’s a wise thing to do. Is that so hard? And can you be cheerful when you’re absolutely mired in deep hatred and resentment? Of course, you can’t. So why would you take it on?” Nevertheless, many folks do take on hatred and resentment. Nothing pleases them more than bringing others down to their level. Misery, it seems, loves company. Negative…
Read more » Luxury Liner Living
Marjorie Kondrack | Mar 17, 2023
MOST OF US REACH a point in retirement where we think about downsizing. This happened most recently for us when my husband was replacing batteries in our smoke alarms. This required him to stand on a ladder and look up, triggering a bout of vertigo. This and other elder episodes, happening as we try to perform simple, everyday tasks, caused us to rethink our ability to remain in our current home. We’re not decrepit yet, but we are slowly succumbing to the vagaries of aging. Many retirees choose to move to 55-plus communities. For those a little further down the road, there are assisted-living facilities and continuing care retirement communities. Today, we also have the choice of 55-plus “resort living” communities, described by the owners as “upscale.” Translation: expensive. These are independent living apartments where you pay rent on a month-to-month lease. There’s no buy-in or one-time fee. These communities are portrayed as "cruise-ship-style living.” The amenities include executive chefs providing three meals a day, an array of snacks, salads and sandwiches for in-between noshers, room service, free wi-fi and utilities, weekly housekeeping and concierge service. Pets are allowed, and there’s a host of additional services. My interest in this style of living was piqued when construction began on a resort living community close to my home. A friend asked me to accompany her to an information seminar given by the management. I also wanted to learn more about this Utopian-sounding existence. There’s no home upkeep, no cooking or shopping for food, no worrying about home repairs, lawn care, snow removal and so on. The salesman giving the presentation was top-notch, with a resonant, booming voice that even those with diminished hearing couldn’t fault. It all sounded like Nirvana, but being a “kick the tires” kind of person, I’ve decided to reserve…
Read more » Paper Chase
Marjorie Kondrack | Feb 8, 2023
I BEGAN BUYING Series I savings bonds in 1999. At the time, you could purchase them at a local bank and receive paper bonds. Amid 2022’s spike in inflation, those early bonds that I bought were—for a six-month stretch last year—yielding an annualized 13.08%. Not bad for a low-risk investment. One drawback to buying savings bonds: the limit on how much a person can purchase each year. When I began buying Series I savings bonds, the maximum was $30,000 per person per year. The current annual limit on I bond purchases is now $10,000 per person, plus $5,000 more if you buy I bonds using a tax refund. While paper savings bonds were once easy to buy, redeeming them is another story. Many banks have stopped cashing them, and the ones that still do have stringent requirements. You typically need to have an account at the bank and to have been a customer for more than a year. In my experience, most banks won’t cash more than $1,000 in bonds at any one time. I recently visited my local bank to cash a few EE bonds that had reached their final maturity. The bank’s staff told me they no longer cashed savings bonds. Fortunately, I have an account at another major bank and was able to redeem them there. When I went to that bank recently to cash a bond, I encountered a new teller. After a series of mistakes, she assured me that everything was okay. Then she handed me my deposit slip. It only showed the amount of a check I deposited—but not the proceeds from the bond. The bank manager then straightened everything out. Still, the whole experience was a little unsettling. It's likely simpler to redeem paper bonds by sending them to Treasury Retail Securities in…
Read more » A Living Tribute
Marjorie Kondrack | Feb 27, 2025
I have always thought that words matter. To this end, I have followed a few financial writers whom I have admired, and whose advice I trust. Each one has a singular quality: one was a brilliant market analyst, one had an uncommon knowledge of investing, and another a well known market strategist. All were trusted providers of market analysis to the world’s most well known institutional investors. I found one person who is the whole package. He is Jonathan Clements. Among his writing talents, Jonathan can untangle unnecessary words, pompous frills and unnecessary jargon. He has the ability to strip every sentence to its cleanest components. Not a word is wasted. Jonathan has the uncanny ability to distill complex thoughts and ideas and break them down in a clear, simple way. Clear thinking becomes clear writing. And In his creativity, he continues to find new ways to convey endless information. So many writers have a style I call herky-jerky. Their thoughts may be interesting and worthy of our attention—but there is a disconnect in their delivery. A hallmark of Jonathan’s writing is a quality I long to possess—his ability to smoothly connect his thoughts. In addition to his financial writing, Jonathan is capable of writing about human nature, with all of its foibles, and flaws, often connecting folks financial idiosyncrasies with their quirky characteristics. He manages to make sense of it all with his contemplative reflections. Some of the best gifts of words are ones we can share with the person we honor while they’re still alive. Thanks, Jonathan,—Clarity, simplicity and humanity are the hallmarks of your writing. Of Equal importance, your compassionate and humble nature. I hope you have many more years to share your talents with us, enjoy your family, and eat heaps of French fries.
Read more » Revising Retirement
Marjorie Kondrack | Dec 28, 2024
Many of us have an idyllic vision of what retirement will be like—endless days of relaxation and recreation. But the rules of retirement are being re-written. This will come as no surprise given the changes in our culture and nation’s economy during the past several years. It may also be a little unsettling to some, as there was some comfort in the knowledge that, after decades of working, you could retire and enjoy your remaining years in peace and tranquility. But there are reasons why baby boomers might not ride off into the sunset as previous generations have. Retirement can be boring. It may be great for a while, but many miss the challenges that came with employment. Besides, you can only play golf or tend to your garden for so long, and traveling can cost a lot of money. Then too, while expecting to fill too many days in the company of loved ones, it may become clear that they have their own routines and commitments. Funding Retirement. We hear often that many retirees haven’t planned properly for retirement—nor does the current state of the economy, during the past several years, bode well for being able to have enough money to do the things you want to do. According to a recent survey, more than 80% of retired or soon to be retired baby boomers plan to do some type of work, in some capacity, during their retirement The increasing cost of health care. This alone is reason enough for people to forestall retirement, especially now that pension plans are becoming a thing of the past. You may have to re-assess the manner in which you withdraw money from retirement funds, with the help of a financial planner. The Social Security conundrum. What will Social Security look like in…
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